nprnews_____ = ||| lubuntu at wor2 1TXN|||Missed Milestones To Faded Friendships: The Unacknowledged Grief Of 2020||| kickerpage = |||no kicker pagenpr for NPRNEWS||| summarynpr = |||For people who are generally OK — healthy, employed — there’s pressure to stay grateful. But those feeling so-called smaller losses also need to grieve and “stop pretending” they’re not hurting.